Why Do I Bother With Life?

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Jethro Rocker

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Generally get the attention of what you call pretty women? I'm lucky I have my wife. I never was one to get the gals.
If that's all that matters to you, maybe set the bar a touch lower. If younlove your life, you will meet someone, somewhere, sometime.
If you truly think you will not, then your spending way too much time thinking about this shit and worrying about it.
 

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Generally get the attention of what you call pretty women? I'm lucky I have my wife. I never was one to get the gals.
If that's all that matters to you, maybe set the bar a touch lower. If younlove your life, you will meet someone, somewhere, sometime.
If you truly think you will not, then your spending way too much time thinking about this shit and worrying about it.
To be honest, the less attractive women are even worse than the good looking ones as far as rejecting me.
 

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This will be my last comment on this thread, which is turning into a broken record. To attract a woman, you have to offer something she wants. That can be good looks, intelligence, warm personality, money, etc. You yourself said you aren’t attractive, so remove that from the list. You might be intelligent, at least based on your writing skills. You may or may not have a warm personality, so I won’t comment.

Give women time to get to know a guy, and I believe they will almost always go for guys who are confident and who take charge. I know a guy who is as ugly as they come, but he is confident, unafraid to take on any challenge, and leads whichever group he is around. No surprise, he is very successful and is married to a gorgeous woman. I have a friend whose son was born with severe bone issues that resulted in him living in the hospital months ata time, surgery after surgery. He is now in college and is able to walk and function. He stands about four feet tall. I’ve known him since he was 3, and I’ve never seen him once complain about his deficiencies. He became an accomplished artist and is now studying animation in college. And guess what, he has a girlfriend who found him attractive for who he is, and not for what he looks like.

One thing I know women are not attracted to are guys who spend more time worrying about what they don’t have, as opposed to focusing on what he wants to do with his life and taking the necessary steps to achieve it.

In a 30second encounter with a woman at a car valet, the good looking guy will win out every time, because there just isn’t enough time to show her whatever qualities you have that she might find attractive.

I wish you best of luck, but one thing is clear. Complaining to a bunch of unknowns on an Internet forum will not provide you with any solutions. You need to focus on and pursue your talents, whatever they may be, and let the chips fall where they may.
 

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So what’s the deal with your looks?
Are you fat, built weird, jacked up face, bad teeth, Gene Simmons hair, etc..

Are you creepy and do you leer at women? This is usually the biggest turnoff in my experience with women. Most women who i know get really freaked out when a guy has a creepy way about them. That’s probably the hardest to change because you can lift weights and diet, get your teeth fixed, get a haircut, get a nose job, get a hair transplant, get lipo, etc.....but if you exude creepy weirdness, I’d imagine that it would be hard to change that. But that said, look at actors who can turn the creepiness for their character and then go back to normal in real life. You could prob go to an acting coach and learn how to act like a cool confident guy.

Do your clothes look like they came out of the hamper or do you dress nice? Gotta dress nice too.
 

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And women like a guy to have confidence...right up to the point where they chop our balls off..
 

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Just a wild guess, only because your concerned about looks.

Get away from Porn if that is what your doing.

It's pretty destructive material when addicted. Doesn't seem so, but on a spiritual level you become WHACKED!!

Drop it like any other toxic addiction. You may have relapses, but nothing to be concerned with if your moving forward.

I went maybe 10 years in my 20's without getting laid. I was despondent due to shyness. Also back and forth with porn, prior to the internet where today its available at the push of a button. I got my frustrations out on guitar and exercising.

Once I figured it all out, started dating and became a MAC DADDY!!!
 
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If your trying your luck on online dating, chances are there are other 1,000 guys messaging/ooggling the same woman....

Just be careful getting catfished by some fat guy pretending to be a hot chick.
 

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A person should have freedom to live or die. A doctor can kill you and not be imprisoned for it.
A policeman can kill you slowly in a prison while he spreads propaganda about the human race , to justify his barbaric actions.

Anyway, on a lighter note.
I’m not suggesting this but merely offering it as a counterpoint to the majority of offers from other members to take you into their homes and feed you porridge.

If you’re going to do it, do it with ceremony.
This is how I’d do it:
Hire the biggest derrick to be parked at the next Coachella rave night. You slip the DJ $1000 to play Jump by Van Halen on your command.
You’re up on the crane with a Marshall cab strapped to your back(bodies crash with a dull thud-you want something thats going to at least explode when it hits the ground).
Jump is blaring. All the Emos are thinking “what the f’ck is this song?”
It gets to the solo and now the emos are into it because they recognize EVH’s tone.
You give a wave to the DJ.
The DJ points the spotlight up at you.
Now is the time to dive bomb from the derrick...everyone starts screaming.

Emos on the News crying and mentally screwed for the rest of their loathesome days.

Voila job done!
 
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Sunshine, you’re more fun than a daily colonoscopy.

Post reported.

You’re on perma-ignore!
I had you pegged as a slithery troublemaker a long time ago.
Your misery and plight in life doesnt belong on a musicians forum.
 

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Up your nose with a rubber hose, bud.

I would waterboard you in a New York minute.

Just for fun.

Have a wonderful day sunshine.

Go and mope somewhere else.
Chronic defeat is written all over your face.
 

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A person should have freedom to live or die. A doctor can kill you and not be imprisoned for it.
A policeman can kill you slowly in a prison while he spreads propaganda about the human race , to justify his barbaric actions.

Anyway, on a lighter note.
I’m not suggesting this but merely offering it as a counterpoint to the majority of offers from other members to take you into their homes and feed you porridge.

If you’re going to do it, do it with ceremony.
This is how I’d do it:
Hire the biggest derrick to be parked at the next Coachella rave night. You slip the DJ $1000 to play Jump by Van Halen on your command.
You’re up on the crane with a Marshall cab strapped to your back(bodies crash with a dull thud-you want something thats going to at least explode when it hits the ground).
Jump is blaring. All the Emos are thinking “what the f’ck is this song?”
It gets to the solo and now the emos are into it because they recognize EVH’s tone.
You give a wave to the DJ.
The DJ points the spotlight up at you.
Now is the time to dive bomb from the derrick...everyone starts screaming.

Emos on the News crying and mentally screwed for the rest of their loathesome days.

Voila job done!
Yeah, might as well do it for a cause.
 

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Wow, this thread has taken on the vibe of an awkward dysfunctional family gathering.
 
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