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Re: WTF do I do ?
First of all, everyone feels a bit f**ked up at that age. I was pretty miserable myself back then, had no girlfriend, was picked on at school etc.
What you need to realize is that you CAN do something. If you throw up your arms and say “this is just the way I am, can’t help it” you will NOT change.
Don’t accept your situation if you are unhappy with it. Figure out what you don’t like and what YOU can do to change it. Don’t blame other people because it doesn’t help you. You cannot control what they do. The only person you can change is you. Don’t wait for things to GET better, MAKE them better.
If people don’t understand you, don’t get frustrated and give up. Instead try to think about how YOU can communicate on their level.
If you’re finding it difficult to articulate what’s in your head, maybe writing it down first would help or even taking a writing class. By writing you learn to structure your thoughts and get your point across is a more to the point way.
Oh and never f**k on a balcony when you’re drunk
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